The Heartfelt Reality of Targeting and Bullying of Young Adults
By Sheila Duncan
Reporter
Coming up in August is “Don’t Be a Bully Month”. For those to understand clearly about the consequences of bullying, we need to educate ourselves.
Bullying and targeting among young adults is a deeply troubling issue that affects countless individuals, leaving lasting scars on their hearts and minds. These harmful behaviors often go unnoticed or unaddressed, but their impact can be profound and far-reaching. Understanding the emotional and social consequences of bullying is essential to foster a more compassionate and supportive world for our young people.
For a young adult, being bullied or targeted is more than just an unpleasant experience—it’s a deeply personal and painful ordeal. Whether through harsh words, physical intimidation, exclusion from social groups, or online harassment, the effects are devastating. The feeling of being singled out or relentlessly tormented can leave a young person feeling isolated, hopeless, and misunderstood.
The constant stress and fear associated with bullying can lead to severe anxiety and depression. Young adults may struggle to find joy in their everyday lives, battling feelings of sadness, worthlessness, and even despair.
Bullying chips away at a person’s self-esteem. Victims often internalize the cruel words and actions, leading to a diminished sense of self-worth and confidence.
The social isolation that comes with being targeted can be overwhelming. Young adults may find it difficult to form and maintain friendships, leading to a deep sense of loneliness and alienation.
The psychological effects of bullying can persist long after the bullying has stopped. Many victims carry the emotional scars into adulthood, facing ongoing mental health challenges.
Bullying and targeting among young adults is a painful reality that we must confront with empathy and action. By recognizing the emotional and social consequences, promoting kindness, and fostering supportive environments, we can help young adults navigate these challenges and build a more compassionate world. Every young person deserves to feel safe, respected, and valued, and it is our collective responsibility to ensure that they do.
“Bullying is a sign of weakness, not strength. They are just wanting to dominate others and improve their social status, they usually have low self-esteem for themselves, they have a lack of remorse, they are angry, struggling socially or have been a victim themselves.
As next month approaches, lets educate ourselves, and spread the word to our young people to help them understand and be able to recognize a bully. Let’s make them feel safe enough to go to someone they know and trust and get help. Next month we will continue to talk about this topic. Let’s make a difference.
